Pondering.

What draws an amazing, Christian guy to a girl?

What if she has baggage, and regrets her past?

Does he see the new her or does the old stuff still stick around and cause doubts?

Does God want to draw girls closer to Him before they meet their "one,"

or does He draw her closer to Him through the "one"?

Can and will God change a heart to see who a girl is in His eyes?

How does a girl come so close to God that it doesn't matter if she is single forever?

How does she get so close to God that her "one" has to go through God to get to her?

Why is it that girls tend to chase guys trying to give him her heart when in reality, guys should be trying to win it over?

Why can friends beat into her head that she deserves the best but she is willing to settle?

Why does she hold on to someone for so long even when he doesn't call?

How do girls get to the place where they don't even think about their "one"?

Why does the simplest "sweet talk" make our heart fall to the ground?